I was in a conversation with a friend last week and sharing some thoughts from this conversation.
Slowly, the internet is shaping a new youth. Normalized (semi) nudity, rationalized intellect and mass scale. All three are diff games to play; diff markets to crack.
The ‘simps’ are creating and losing
They create attention chambers for young girls to bask in the glory of attention
The lose the essence of testosterone (and its virtue) in creating this attention chamber
The ‘Insta models’ are thriving in a race to the last
Attention chambers have low entry barriers for anyone open to show their skin and to what extent; IMs thrive here!
The attention chambers also have low exit barrier. As the IMs age and find the muscles losing their ‘tone’, the default exit thrives.
Algorithms are not here to experiment but run a conveyer belt of this default entry and exit
As nudity normalizes, more IMs find themselves on conveyer belt. Except this belt is now saturated and we’d see more of videos like of that of metro girl coming out in open.
There’s no culprit here. It is following basic model of thermodynamics. Disorder.
Modern Buddha is the one who’d renounce the screen.
What shall men try and do?
Give up social media, if it does not help you make money.
If you make money out of it, get rid of apps. Switch to web!
Focus on mind, muscle and mentality. Scale them!
Learn and understand more of what testosterone is, how it functions and what it can do to you, if managed well!
Opt for celibacy for at least a year in 20s. Skip sleeping around or any Casual games
Invest in woman in long term. Find one, moderate your relationship privately towards something bigger, better and long term.
Pick a sport and find ways to meet other strong men
Read, a lot. Then Implement lessons for your well being!
Stop being available to every person on the planet. No one’s worth it.
List can be longer. Start small, fix things on the go and go spartan
What shall women try and do?
Your life is way more precious than few likes on social media. Stop thriving on attention from random dudes online.
Delete Instagram today. You don’t need it!
If it helps you make money or a brand, outsource the app functions and switch to web. If neither possible, add screen time in a day via some app.
Learn real skills and focus on financial independence
Focus greatly on your health. Your cycle is an indicator of what’s your body going through internally. If you’ve PCOD/PCOS; fix it. If you’ve skin issues, fix it. If you’ve other issues. Fix it.
Avoid circles that are all about gossips and bitching.
Pick a sport
Read, a lot. Understand how women struggles came took you, as a woman, this far! Don’t be disillusioned by fake struggles created by some social media influencer who are there to make money by some NGO or George Soros fund.
List can be longer. Start small, fix your body and muscles and mind. Stop being available to every ‘simp’